(obsessing..let's be real)
You have that space in your mind back... you know, the space that allows you to think about how good your coffee tastes, to go to your favourite restaurants, and to daydream about the future with a smile again.
(and are excited about it)
It feels so light and free to meet someone and really look forward to getting to know them! To finally stop comparing them to that ex. Damn it feels good to be open to love again. It feels good to choose yourself and be chosen.
(the door's finally closed)
It's hard to put this into words... but you know that moment when the weight just lifts?! When we're actually free from the prison of our past...when we know if they asked, we wouldn't want them back - that moment, is delicious.
GET OVER THE EX!? OF COURSE. AMAZING. BUT HOW DO I EVEN BEGIN?!
We often confuse letting go with saying, "What they did was okay". We sit in pain because we feel less lonely... because any feeling is better than the feeling of having to start over, right?!
Maybe... but mostly, No.
You may have made some progress though, right?! You might have even stopped checking their social media posts & activity (no you didn't), or driving by their house or work, you may have even watched my webinar on breakups...
WHEN DO YOU CHOOSE YOU?! You're at the bottom, now it's time to rise. Pick up these pieces and stop waiting for someone else to save you. IT'S TIME TO SAVE YOURSELF.
It's time to learn how to have your own back, set amazing boundaries, clean up your past, and move towards a future that is bright and beautiful and filled with the type of love you know you deserve.
Learn how to grieve your relationship so you can finally let them go
The steps you need to do to help your heart feel whole again
Regain your identity, discover and step more fully into who you are, and move forward empowered and ready!
"If you're ready to move through your upper limit, take responsibility for the energy you bring to the table and love all of the parts you've been hiding for so long this is the course for you! I feel empowered, so compassionate toward myself and the little me who was so hurt for so long. I'm ready to openly work through things I used to hide from. I know my values and my boundaries and I'm hoping to invite a partner in my life who is as woke as I am now. No more thinking small or settling for less. I am now the love I crave. TEN OUT OF TEN!"
Take intentional steps to heal, learn how to grieve your relationship so you can let it go. Take the steps you need to help your heart feel whole again. Regain your identity and move forward empowered and fulfilled!