A Self-Study Book Club to Help You End Cycles of Self Sabotage!


Learn Relational Self Awareness!

Are you unsure if you are experiencing anxiety or a gut feeling?


 Are you ready to be your true self and stop self-abandonment?


 Are you ready to end your cycles of self-sabotage?


Then you're in the right place.

I'm ready to learn!

Meet Your Create The Love Expert

Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon is a licensed clinical therapist, professor at Northwestern University in Chicago, IL, and love nerd all around. She is the author of Loving Bravely: 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help you Get the Love You Want and Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships you want. With over 20 years of experience, Dr. Solomon makes the path to brave love easy to understand and navigate by providing comprehensive tools to Relational Self Awareness.



▶︎ You get into relationships with high hopes, but they never seem to work out in the end.

❤️  You try to communicate, but your partner doesn't respond the way you were hoping.

▶︎ You're no stranger to self-sabotage when it comes to relationships.

❤️  You're never sure if what you're feeling is a gut feel or anxiety until it's too late.

▶︎ You know you have some unhealed wounds from the past that get in the way of intimacy.

❤️  You feel like your emotional needs are not met and you also feel 'needy' anytime you express them.

▶︎ You feel like you lose yourself in love.

❤️  You want to be deeply in love, but you're not sure how to get there.

If any of these resonated with you, Loving Bravely will give you tools to help end self-sabotage so you can build the relationship of your dreams.

When you start to understand your core wounds and patterns, you are more able to attend to what you feel inside. Part of this exploration is learning to listen to your gut, and being able to discern between a gut feeling and anxiety.


Part 1: Self-Reflection

Learn about Dr. Solomon's theory of Relational Self Awareness, a powerful tool to help you change old stories, and how our family systems affect the way we love.

Part 2: Self-Knowledge

Dive into the power of context, what brave love really looks like (not a fairy tale!), the difference between gut-feeling vs. anxiety, and cultivating joy within.

Part 3: Self-Expression

Explore the parts of you that fall into self-expression, self-aware sex, and how to handle conflict so that it deepens intimacy instead of creating a rift within.

Part 4: Self-Expansion

Master the art of heartfelt apologies, forgiveness, presence, and self-compassion to step into your fullest most self-aware version of self. Now enjoy your growth.

What You Get

  • An out-of-the-ordinary book club experience of Loving Bravely, guided by the author and Psychology Professor, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon.
  • 16 instructional video lessons from Dr. Solomon to provide an intimate learning experience as you explore the book and how the lessons relate to your life.
  • Weekly Check-in Videos with Mark Groves - hear his thoughts and insights!
  • A live Q&A session with Dr. Solomon on August 12 at 12pm Pacific / 3pm Eastern + it will be recorded if you can't make it!
  • Exclusive worksheets and articles hand-selected by Dr. Solomon.
  • Meditations, affirmations, activities, and exercises to enrich your exploration of relational wellness.
  • Coaching support in the comments along your journey from Dr. Solomon's team of trained coaches.
  • A Create The Love Community of people who are on the same journey as you for additional witnessing + support.
  • You get immediate access to course content after sign-up.
  • You don't need the book to start, in fact, you can learn simply by participating in the course (book not included but great if you read along too!)

What Create The Lovers Are Saying


"The Loving Bravely book club was like being given the coziest blanket and choice safe space to unpack, share, bear witness, hold space, support and walk alongside like-minded individuals who were looking for more education, more tools, and more resonance on how to be harmonious in their relationships, and how to do human connection in a more meaningful and satisfying way. I had previously read Dr. Solomon’s book “Loving Bravely” but I learned to face and own so much more of what was in those incredible chapters by having the book club facilitated through Create The Love. If you are ready for a mirror and muse for what you already know you want to work through, this is an exquisite opportunity for unending grace in a sacred space." 

Mala B. 

"I love the course SO much. Can’t believe how easy you make it to learn so much, in such a short time!"

Esther R. 

"If you're ready to move through your upper limit, take responsibility for the energy you bring to the table and love all of the parts you've been hiding for so long this is the course for you! I feel empowered, so compassionate toward myself and the little me who was so hurt for so long. I'm ready to openly work through things I used to hide from. I know my values and my boundaries and I'm hoping to invite a partner in my life who is as woke as I am now. No more thinking small or settling for less. I am now the love I crave. TEN OUT OF TEN!" 

Liz S.

“This first lesson is already worth the price of admission. Thank you! ” 

James M.

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